People don’t like to smile when they take their own picture (of course there are exceptions). Think this means people take themselves too seriously?
I guess it has something to do with, that you don't want to exude that you like yourself. When I think about it, I rarely smile, even if other people are shooting a photo of me.
Not smiling is the "new" smile :-|
I'm thinking it has more to do with how, when someone takes a pic of you, you're often asked to smile, or do so out of a feeling of obligation and tradition, whereas when you do a self-portrait you sorta feel dumb smiling to nobody.
That, or people just like the sexy pouting look for self-portraits. :)
When someone is taking your picture, you are smiling at them, but you are also allowing them to have an image of yourself. I think there is some practical understanding that a smiling photo usually looks good and is difficult to misuse. That's why famous people in deep trouble smile on the courthouse steps.
When you are taking a photo of yourself, there is the ridiculous moment of smiling at your own arm, but there is also the safety of owning the image. If I dont like it, Ill get rid of it.
Plus, I just want to see what I look like. I don't think people smile at their own cameras any more than they smile at mirrors.
Ok, now Im really done.
This recalls a memory for me from long ago. In a high school art class we had a self-portrait assignment. I drew myself an overly-flattering portrait and thought it was pretty much top notch after looking at some of the stuff others were doing. Then I saw another classmates portrait that made me think again. It was a great likeness, but most notable was its large and completely genuine ear-to-ear grin. I was completely flabbergast How could I have missed this point? I thought. How much more it looked like her than if it had the expressionless stare of my attempt. I felt that hers really was a portrait and minewasnt. Live and learn.
Taking pictures requires concentration. People don't smile when they are concentrating. Unless, of course, they are concentrating on smiling.
Two other considerations:
1) there are lots of folks who don't like their own smiles (so, self-consciousness)
2) having someone else to smile at helps; a smile aid, if you will.
I guess this smiling phobia is akin to that of people listening to their own recorded voice. Most think their recorded voice sounds like crap. I certainly am one of those.
Women are constantly asking me if they can take a picture of me.
*sigh* Being gorgeous does have a down side. *COUGH*
Was just reading Understanding Comics by Scott McCloud and he talks about "non-visual self awareness," especially as it relates to the face. Although we don't see our own face, when we interact with others we have a certain perception of what we look like, what we want to project, and how we think others see us, so often we'll smile to reinforce our own self awareness. Perhaps self-portraits don't need this reinforcement--you're less concious of how you appear to others.
I recently tired to do both [flickr photo] in a self-portrait.
If you are really looking at yourself in the mirror... and I mean really looking... the structure of your face... the way light breaks across the facets of your face... to me it much like looking at photos from the Mars rover... alien and extra-terrestrial. It's fun think that I'm behind there.
I guess for me it's about trying to grasp that I am not only a mental being of thoughts, dreams, emotions.... self-awareness... but also a walking physical object. When I snap a picture of myself... I'm looking at the physical part... and trying to see how the 'I' fits inside my body.
Oh, and if you every try drawing a self-portrait... try and see how long you can hold a convincing smile before it starts looking forced and strained.
(I think Scott McCloud is right on target)
I'd say it's because people have to be told to smile in most photos. A self-portrait removes the usual 'script' so to speak, people become aware that a smile would be fake. So they don't do it.